In a hilarious stand-up routine, Jerry Seinfeld pokes fun at the way we order and pay for food in restaurants: “Before you eat, money has absolutely no value,” but when the check comes, “people are mystified. We’re not hungry now, why are we buying all this food?” Coming back from a really good, long vacation has a similar touch of gaslighting to it. You return to a house that clearly hasn’t been lived-in and needs some clean-up; there are piles of dirty laundry to wash and no groceries in the fridge; maybe you’re sunburned or itching with mosquito bites (mosquitos, no-see-ums, AND fire ants all got us good this time — and on top of it all, we’re still recovering from the colds that brought us low at the tail end of our travels); bills need to be paid and, heavens forbid, you think ahead to the next workday and the thousands of unread emails awaiting in your dumpster fire of a work inbox. You survey this desolate landscape of unpleasant tasks ahead and think to yourself, “this isn’t what I signed up for when I took a couple weeks off to unwind.”
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